Things my husband does that really annoys me

I have never blogged about such topics before. All along I've only blogged about G.. Her milestones and some parental stuffs because I never thought I would ever need to touch on these. But today is the day.... Yep the title pretty much sums it up...

Things my husband does that really annoys me:

1) when he doesn't bother to call or message to let me know whether he is done with work or his where abouts or what time he will be home.

This is one thing I really cannot stand!! I can't emphasize how many times I've had squabbles with him over this. OK you see when I had a job and if I end at 11pm.. I always always call my husband to let him know I'm leaving work and on the way home. Because its late and all. But as time went by I realize it doesn't matter to him if I call or what.

To me its not just about the safety part. Like what if something along the way happens and all. No its just a responsibility as a spouse right? To inform the other half where you are or what time you will be home. I had this conversation with my ex colleagues too who are husband or boyfriends. They all don't see a need to. But to women its a big deal! Its not because we don't trust you but really its your responsibility as a boyfriend or husband to let your girlfriend or wife know where you are! Is it that difficult to drop a simple message like "otw home or leaving work?" 2 words is all I ask for and its like a chore to men -.-

2) when he's constantly on the phone

My husband has become so attached to his phone its ridiculous. I can be sitting there talking to him and he's on his phone. And when I ask him what I said he just tells me half of what I said. Like what?! What is so darn important you can't pay attention to your wife? And it pisses me off when he's on the phone when G is sitting in front of him. Can't you put down your phone and give your daughter attention?

Lately he's become a phone addict ever since his stupid hobby. Which brings me to point 3

3) his stupid shrimp hobby

Yea my husband rears shrimps. Tiny stupid hei be. No joke they are that small. I don't know how much he has spent on this and I rather not know cause I will be so darn angry. For a period of time he used to come home.. Stare at his shrimps.. Then say hi to his daughter then his wife. Until one day I got so irritated I told him off. Like wth his shrimps are more important than his family? Crazy or what. And why he's constantly on his phone cause he has several group chats which he names "crazy shrimpers" or "shrimpers" which are constantly messaging each other. Like really wtf?! Or he's following shrimp Facebook accounts. Someone just kill me now.

Oh and if you see our room... Its like I'm living in a dam aquarium. He has 2 tanks on the computer table. One long tank which is segmented into 3 parts... 1 huge ass shelf with 1 MBS like infinity pool on the top... And 4 other tanks below it. And he has to put dam bloody bright lights on each of the tanks. Can you imagine how bright the room is?! And the lights are even on when we sleep. And I HATE light. Like seriously I think I'm a vampire cause I really hate the light or bright day. So imagine how hopping mad and irritated I get with his stupid tank lights. Sighhh #whyismyhusbandlikethis

My husband and I hardly argue... But when we do have petty arguments these are the 3 main reasons. Sometimes I really don't understand what goes on in his head.

Despite these 3 stupid and horrible thinga of his that I hate and cannot stand... He still is an awesome husband and daddy (most of the time). Plus he's not always like that. And sometimes I can tolerate his such nonsense but when I'm cranky or really need his attention on things... Then that's when I go bananas.

I still love you you annoying person. Plus I'm stuck with him forever. So its all about compromise and tolerance in a marriage and to accept one another's flaws and habits even when they are stupid and weird. And also always acknowledge and apologize when you are at fault and the other must always be willing to forgive and forget.

Now that I'm back to blogging.. I shall also start blogging a marriage series so do look out for those. Even though we have been married for a year... This year has taught me a lot. So I shall share our experiences with you. And also because I will be studying my Masters in counselling in July. So once I start I shall share what I learn over here.